Winter Solstice ZEN…..
 
Folks will forget your words, your lectures, your rants and raves…..they will forget your accolades, even the good works you do…….but one thing they will never forget……….
 
HOW you made them feel…….
 
Did you SEE them…….or did you simply entertain them on your terms and conditions?
 
The fastest way to Discord in any relationship is to NOT validate their feelings……..to NOT deeply listen to what they are telling you……..
 
Too many folks, too often do not truly listen…….sadly in our current state of affairs, many to most folks have entirely forgotten how to listen……deeply…….on a daily basis I pay attention to how folks listen……..and it’s readily apparent that they know not what they do……..these plenty good and intelligent people simply move too fast for their own good……..they rush toward re-iterating their comfortably-certain, GOTTA BE RIGHT narrative……..defenses and post-hoc rationalizations galore……so much so that it comprises nearly 99% of all human interaction……..99% of all human interaction is merely the NOISE of self-indulgence…….good folks signal rather than share authenticity……..
 
IF you ever want to truly TOUCH another human beings’ HEART……you must be HERE, NOW…..PRESENT with them……not on your terms and conditions (closed, below the line)……but ABOVE THE LINE……Open, Curious, Exalted, ALIVE……..
 
We are FEELING creatures……we navigate throughout this plain of material environment, insothat we may gain resolution against what is RELEVANT and what is NOT RELEVANT……
 
When we are authentic and HERE NOW…….DEEPLY LISTENING…….we are Relevant and ALIVE……we are in ACCORD with Mother Nature……..Reality herself……
 
NO one can make LIFE happen for YOU……..you must resolve yourself……in order to ACTUALIZE that which is relevant IN YOU……..It’s never too late……as the only time we ever enjoy is NOW, NOW, NOW, NOW…….
 
Love is the Law, Love under Will.

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